March 15, 2019, will forever remain one of the most painful days of my life—the day I lost my beloved mother, a true princess of the Oyo Kingdom from the noble Ladigbolu descendants. Though six years have passed, the memories remain fresh, and the pain of her absence still lingers.
That day, I was at the National Merit House, Abuja, with my colleagues from Save The Consumers Initiative (STCi), marking World Consumers Day. It was supposed to be a moment of celebration, but fate had a different plan. My phone rang, and on the other end, my younger brother, Bummy Aina, delivered the news that broke my heart—our mother was gone.
Tears welled up instantly. I was surrounded by dignitaries, yet I couldn’t hold back my grief. I wept behind the podium and continued crying as I made my way to Abeokuta. I refused to believe she was truly gone until I saw her lifeless body and watched as her remains were lowered into the grave. It was a moment that crushed me.
My mother fondly called IYA BUNMI,lived an exceptional life—one marked by faith, kindness, and selfless devotion to others. She was deeply religious, always reminding me to hold on to God no matter the situation. Her unwavering faith shaped my own belief in Allah’s plan, teaching me patience and resilience.
She was more than just a mother to her children; she was a pillar of support to her immediate and extended family, ensuring that no one was left behind. Her love and care knew no bounds—she looked after everyone as if they were her own. She was a woman of sacrifice, always putting others before herself. That selflessness is a virtue I strive to emulate every day.
As if losing her was not painful enough, exactly one month later, my maternal grandmother, Alhaja, also passed away. The double loss was a heavy burden, but I take solace in the knowledge that they both lived righteous lives and have returned to their Creator.
Though my mother is no longer here physically, her legacy of love, care, and faith continues to live through me. Her lessons guide my path, and her compassion inspires me to be a better person. I miss her deeply, but I trust in Allah’s wisdom.
May Almighty Allah grant her and my dear grandmother Aljannah Firdaus and continue to shower His mercy upon them. Amin.
Forever in my heart,
Your son,
Lukman Laleye Babalola
