A husband who enjoys shrinking, belittling you is a grave digger. If he uses words like fists, beats you emotionally until your confidence bleeds, get help or get out or both.” How could she not have seen this coming? Why did she not speak up? Why didn’t she leave, seek help? Each time a wife is killed by her husband and the media is awash with sordid details of another marriage becoming a crime scene—we ask the same weary questions. Didn’t she see the signs? Why didn’t anyone stop him?…
