As the crescent moon ushers in the season of Eid al-Adha, also known as Eid el-Kabir, hearts swell with gratitude, homes fill with laughter, and communities come alive with celebration. But beyond the meat and merriment lies a deeper meaning, a profound story of faith, sacrifice, and unwavering obedience to the Divine.
We remember Prophet Ibrahim (AS), a man tested by Allah in ways unimaginable. Commanded to sacrifice his beloved son, Isma’il (AS), he submitted wholeheartedly. Remarkably, his son too, in full obedience, was willing to be sacrificed for the sake of Allah. But at the final moment, Allah replaced Isma’il with a ram, a divine symbol that the intention of the heart weighs more than the action of the hand. And so, both father and son returned home not in grief, but in joy, having passed a test of loyalty, faith, and love for their Creator.
This powerful story teaches us that true love sometimes lies in sacrifice, in letting go, and in surrendering to a higher purpose. It is not just a tale from the past but a living lesson for us today.
Eid al-Adha is a season of love, appreciation, and unity. It is a time when families come together to wine and dine, to share meals not only among themselves but with neighbours, friends, the less privileged, and even strangers. It is a moment that reminds us of the values that make us human with compassion, generosity, and togetherness.
This season signifies more than just a festival. It symbolizes the spirit of unity in our homes, communities, society, country, and the world at large. During this period, Muslims from every corner of the globe gather in the holy land of Makkah for Hajj, clothed in the same white garments, performing the same rites, and standing side by side regardless of race, status, or nationality.
Whether it’s the Tawaf around the Kaaba, where millions move as one body in devotion.
Or the stoning at Mina, where believers renounce evil collectively.
Or the sacred standing at Mount Arafah, where voices rise to the heavens in unison.
Or the night spent at Muzdalifah, where all distinctions disappear and equality reigns.
In these moments, we witness a glimpse of the world as it should be: A world without division, without pride, without hatred. A world of peace, where people live in harmony under the banner of love and faith.
As a marriage coach and counsellor, I see Eid al-Adha not just as a celebration, but as a divine reminder. It teaches us to love one another, to accept and tolerate one another, and to call on our Creator with one voice. In our homes, in our marriages, in our communities this spirit of unity and sacrifice must live on.
The slaughtering of a ram should never be a competition of whose ram is the biggest, fattest, or most expensive. Instead, it is a sacred act of worship with a reflection of our willingness to sacrifice for Allah and to give generously to others. The prayer is not for show, but for acceptance.
So as we celebrate Eid, let us not forget its essence. Let us cook and share meals, laugh with loved ones, give to the needy, and reflect on our relationships. Let us forgive, embrace, and build bridges where there were once walls.
Because if we can carry the spirit of Eid al-Adha into our everyday lives, living in love, unity, sacrifice, and humility, then our homes will be happier, our communities stronger, and our world would become a better place.
Wishing you a happy home and a happy marriage.
Eid Mubarak
